Re-Create your "Happily Ever After"!
Your relationship goes through a natural evolutionary period but if you dont know how to navigate these changes, it can lead to loneliness, disconnection and even divorce. A deep and meaningful relationship is the most rewarding and challenging thing you will ever do in your life.
Our Signature program, Couple 2 Couple ™, is designed to show you the specific skills that are uniquely needed for your relationship to evolve, transform and thrive!
Re-Create your "Happily Ever After!
Life is a series of events leading you to another human being that can move you forward or move you backwards. It takes courage to discern whether the person you are in love with is truly an asset for you. Our Signature program Couple 2 Couple ™ is designed for you to understand yourself better, get to re-learn about your partner, and evolve together in a way you both are thriving!
Couples Synergy certainly opened up our lines of communication. We both agree that we are more sensitive to each others needs and feelings. Also when we do have disagreements they are much more productive and easily solved. Quite honestly you have given us the tools to have a successful marriage and we haven’t been happier.
Synergize your Life,
and Synergize your Love
Couple 2 Couple ™is an exclusive program is designed for our couples who desire personal care and a program customized specifically to meet their needs!
We have seen over time that relationships fall apart from all the noise generated from outside forces. It is easy to get off track by focusing your attention on the competing demands of children, work and everyday struggles. Over and over again we hear from couples who are stressed out, burned out and starving as individuals and in their relationships. They have the career, the house and the kids but feel like something is missing. We know it's possible to reconnect, reengage and rebuild the love, passion and hope you once had. We have helped thousands of couples fall deeply in love again, and we can help you too.
We are very selective when it comes to who we work with, as we receive thousands of applications per year for this program. The chosen few are couples that are committed to growth, are hungry for change, and desire to thrive in their relationship. Dr. Ray & Jean know all too well the struggles and challenges that come with a committed relationship, and they know the secrets to unlocking deep connection and true love. That is why they dedicate their time and expertise to every couple selected for this program, which is designed for healing, empowerment, connection and mentorship.
We will cut through the noise and focus on what the specific needs are in your ideal relationship. We will help you understand how to harvest the best from your unique histories to merge together into a dynamic relationship.
You will be able to identify the uniqueness of one another and how you both compliment each other in ways that you have not heard or understood before. You will also receive the tools necessary to build a strong foundation, an unbreakable bond, and an unshakeable mindset, together.
Create the Relationship You've Always Dreamed of With the Partner You Fell in Love With
DESIGNING WITH INTENTION
After working with thousands of couples since 2002, we have designed a unique and powerful process to help you get back on track. We have uncovered the common mistakes most couples make time and time again. We then teach you the insights, clarity and direction necessary to break the cycle of frustration, miscommunication and unhappiness. Our intention is that your relationship becomes a beacon of hope for not only you, but also your friends, family and future generations as you grow far beyond what you were taught was possible.
CREATING WITH PURPOSE
We get wounded through relationship and heal through relationship. That is why we are so passionate about helping couples understand their patterns, learn more effective tools, and permanently transform their relationship. Learning how to create a dynamic, resilient and deep loving connection allows you to live a life that is full of joy and purpose, free from the bonds of old wounds and past hurts. You too can create a relationship with purpose.
LIVE IN LOVE
You may have felt overwhelmed and almost outright crazy right now, the good news is that you are not alone! Relationships can be heartbreaking, and times can be uncertain; in fact it is difficult to grasp the importance of living a life filled with hope, excitement and love when chaos is happening around you. All of the doubts, mishaps, failures, setbacks, arguments, fights, miscommunication, confrontations, lies, are all an indication of where growth is needed in your relationship. It is an opportunity to create a connection and relationship you never thought possible.
"When the pain of staying the same, becomes greater than the fear of change, then we will change."
-Dr. Henry Cloud
Ready to be empowered, love intentionally and connect deeply?
Take the first step to Live in Love and let us know how we can help you.
We focus on the three pillars of your being to birth new light and love into your life!
DESIGNING WITH INTENTION
Visualization is a big part of being able to understand where you want to be, how you want to feel, and most importantly who you want to become when achieving your goals. Pro-athletes use this method to win world championships and gold metals. We use this method to achieve existential and unstoppable forces towards intentional happiness, goal achievement exercises, repairing communication patterns, limiting belief discernment, and internal spiritual alignment re-incarnation. You cannot build something great without understanding how incredibly talented you are, and what your true strengths are in YOUR relationships. What you love is a clue to your gifts, skills and wisdom you contain. We uncover all of this, all of it.
CREATING WITH PURPOSE
The work comes when we accept that we need help, and we are open to tackling such mountains. It is through the work that we can CREATE a life so rich, so powerful and utterly fairytale-like that people rejoice when they witness the greatness exuding out of both of you. When creating a masterpiece, there is a process that allows the essential parts of yourself to stand out, shout with grace and feel alive again. By uncovering the necessary steps, scraping all the gunk that was left from past turmoil, priming it with love, painting it with vibrance, and letting it simmer in wisdom and higher intelligence, you are now closer and closer to becoming one with your partner, once again.
LIVE IN LOVE
You may have felt overwhelmed and almost outright crazy right now, the good news is that you are not alone! Relationships can be heartbreaking, and times can be uncertain; in fact it is difficult to grasp the importance of living a life filled with hope, excitement and love when chaos is happening around you. All of the doubts, mishaps, failures, setbacks, arguments, fights, miscommunication, confrontations, lies, are all part of the master plan to get you back in shape. Every single one. Without the bad, there will be no good, without dark, light doesn’t exist, without pain there is no love, so how can you judge whether you are ready for elevation? It is through clear awareness, you are able to discern and firmly know when you have had enough. Can you say that right now?
Ready to breathe fully, love intentionally and feel nourished? Understanding that this is one the first step towards greatness, you are closer to the second step which is taking action and sharing with us what you need.
Button: Declare it, claim it, own it. Take the next steps.
DR.RAY & JEAN
We were married on Valentine’s Day in 1998. We have two grown sons and a daughter in law and enjoy sharing all life has to offer with one another. Before we met, we were in toxic relationships and both developed a passion for working on ourselves and entered the field of psychology. Two Masters degrees and a Doctorate later, our passion for helping ourselves grow and develop evolved into a passion for helping other couples in their relationships. This led to us opening a counseling clinic in the Chicagoland area called the Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center.
Since then we have helped thousands of couples transform their relationships and created our own model of expertise called, Couples Synergy. The model we teach not only reflects the knowledge we have collected over the years but also the personal work we have done in our own relationship. We enjoy living life together, experiencing new foods, traveling, backpacking, riding our motorcycles, scuba diving and enjoying the moments together. We are not just people who teach about relationships, we live it.
DR.RAY & JEAN
Working in community mental health, we often were tasked with meeting with a couple or family as an individual therapist. We learned early on that this traditional structure of couples therapy was ineffective. We were married on Valentine’s Day in 1998 and in 2002 opened The Lighthouse as a company that helps couples create a successful relationship. We help couples as a couple.
Before we met, we were in toxic relationships and both developed a passion for working on ourselves and entered the field of psychology. Jean was a single mother and Ray’s parents wanted him to be a medical doctor. Our passion for helping ourselves grow and develop transferred to a passion for helping other couples in their relationships. This led to us opening the Lighthouse.
Opening a company without any business knowledge has been the everlasting struggle, and obstacles occurred because of that lack of knowledge. The need for growth in an area we are not knowledgeable about, and our need to break through a glass ceiling that we find ourselves held back by. We are not just people who teach relationship, we live it.