The Relationship You Have Always Dreamed of… With the Partner You Fell in Love with!

Couples we have helped for over 20 years have often said that attending a Couples Synergy ® program has enriched their relationship in ways never imagined and gave them hope where there was none.


Now more than ever, reconnecting and tapping into our highest level of consciousness is required to live the live we've always dreamt of. The work goes into that, is now available to you through a 3-day weekend intensive! You can expect to walk away from this weekend feeling more connected than before, with a level of awareness and understanding of your partner never before achieved.

The Relationship You Have Always Dreamed of…

With the Partner You Fell in Love with!

Couples we have helped for over 20 years have often said that attending a Couples Synergy ® program has enriched their relationship in ways never imagined and gave them hope where there was none.


Now more than ever, reconnecting and tapping into our highest level of consciousness is required to live the life we've always dreamt of. The work that goes into that, is now available to you through a 4-day Weekend Intensive! You can expect to walk away from this weekend feeling more connected than before, with a level of awareness and understanding of your partner never before achieved.

Creating a happy & healthy intimate relationship is the most challenging and most rewarding thing you will ever do in your life


We focus on the three pillars of your relationship to bring new light and love into your life!

Learn the Skills & Tools Necessary to Bring Love, Passion & Excitement

Back into Your Relationship


Upcoming Weekend Intensive is on:

Thursday, October 15 – Sunday, October 18, 2020

Located in beautiful Lakeside, Michigan, Lakeside Inn, Spend the morning reading on our 100-foot porch facing Lake Michigan. Relax on our private beach. Set along the shores of Lake Michigan, this country-style 19th-century hotel is 7 miles from Warren Dunes State Park and 7 miles from shows at the Acorn Theater.


During this time we see no other clients and take no calls or emails because your therapist is 100% devoted to you, your partner and your relationship. As your relationship consultant, we are always fully present for the process and we go through it together. Here are the Three Relationship Essentials you are going to accomplish:


Relationships are like bank accounts – Deposits & Withdrawals. The time you spend enjoying each other and doing new things are deposits. The times you spend apart, in conflict or disconnected are withdrawals. We will dive deeper into how to best balance your time, to rebuild your account together!



What’s YOUR Balance?


It’s time to invest in permanently transforming your relationship to go beyond what you currently know is even possible! It is achievable with a game plan that fits into your individual needs and compliments both of your expectations!


The level of connection you have with your partner reflects in all areas of your life! If you want to have a better emotional, physical, mental and financial life, then the type of work that we will be diving into will allow you to reset everything and start fresh!

Upcoming Weekend Intensive is on:

Thursday, April 15 – Sunday, April 18, 2021

Located in beautiful Lakeside, Michigan, at the Lakeside Inn. Spend the morning reading on our 100-foot porch facing Lake Michigan. Relax on our private beach. Set along the shores of Lake Michigan, this country-style 19th-century hotel is 7 miles from Warren Dunes State Park and just 5 minutes north of New Buffalo.


During this weekend we see no other clients and take no calls or emails because your coaching team is 100% devoted to you, your partner and your relationship. Here are the Three Relationship Essentials you are going to accomplish:


Relationships are like bank accounts – Deposits & Withdrawals. The time you spend enjoying each other and doing new things are deposits. The times you spend apart, in conflict or disconnected are withdrawals. We will dive deeper into how to best balance your time, to rebuild your account together!



What’s YOUR Balance?


It’s time to invest in permanently transforming your relationship to go beyond what you currently know is even possible! It is achievable with a game plan that fits into your individual needs and compliments both of your expectations!


The level of connection you have with your partner reflects in all areas of your life! If you want to have a better emotional, physical, mental and financial life, then the type of work that we will be diving into will allow you to reset everything and start fresh!

Use that emotional bridge to see what really is the deeper issue.

Power couple and relationship experts Dr. Ray and Jean Kadkhodaian will personally work with you and your partner to show you how to design, create and live a thriving, healthy life.


Almost every couple of the thousands of couples we have worked with since 2002 state that the reason they are seeking help is a “problem with communication”.


We get into relationships ideally to change, to heal and to grow. When a couple stops growing together, friction, disappointment, resentment and confusion grow instead. The longer a couple waits to seek help the longer they feed the problem. Unfortunately, the average couple waits six years before seeking help.


This weekend intensive is designed to reduce the effects that an unhealthy relationship has on the individual and their children.

The Weekend Intensive will cover topics such as:

  • Communication patterns
  • Trust and honesty
  • Friendship
  • Quality time
  • Igniting Fun & passion
  • Creating new experiences
  • Common Vision
  • Common Vision
  • Emotional and physical intimacy
  • Healthy boundaries and expectations

"WE Feel aligned,

stronger and more connected than ever!

Finally Found our peace"

The Weekend Intensive is designed for you to re-connect, learn but most importantly have FUN!


If a person is unaware of what he or she is feeling, it is impossible to communicate with a partner.


The proverbial argument of ”putting the cap on the toothpaste”, or “leaving your clothes all over the place” is never the true issue at hand. Once a person can understand the emotion behind those actions, one can then use that emotional bridge to see what really is the deeper issue.


This Weekend Intensive is more than just a weekend getaway with your partner. It is a chance to learn the communication tools necessary to truly share with your partner at a level you have never reached before.


Self-understanding, mutual understanding, compassion and empathy are all skills necessary to connect with a committed and loving partner. This weekend teaches all that and more.


"Ray and Jean are our Angels!

They helped us get out of our box, and finally tap into our highest potential!"

Not only do we uncover the deep rooted emotional patterns that may be holding you both back, but we have lots of fun! We have helped thousands of couples, “create the relationship they’ve always dreamed of with the partner they fell in love with", and we are very proud of who we help!

It's not all work, we have lots of fun too!

Weekend registration includes:


  • Accommodation


  • Meals except for Friday evening dinner


  • Complementary bottle of wine from local vineyard


  • Couples Synergy wine glasses


  • Wine tasting tickets


  • Formal Dinner/Dance with live music


  • Programming




Upgrades include (limited quantity):


  • Room upgrade


  • Photoshoot with Maira Ochoa

Connect With Your Partner in a Way You Never Knew Was Possible

Power couple and relationship experts, Dr. Ray and Jean Kadkhodaian, along with the Couples Synergy Team, will personally work with you and your partner on this weekend to show you how to design, create and live a thriving, healthy life.


Almost every couple of the thousands of couples we have worked with since 2002 state that the reason they are seeking help is a “problem with communication”.


We get into relationships ideally to change, to heal and to grow. When a couple stops growing together, friction, disappointment, resentment and confusion grow instead. The longer a couple waits to seek help, the longer they feed the problem. Unfortunately, the average couple waits six years before seeking help.


This weekend intensive is designed to reduce the effects that an unhealthy relationship has on the individual and their children.

The Weekend Intensive will cover topics such as:

  • Communication patterns
  • Trust and honesty
  • Friendship
  • Quality time
  • Igniting Fun & passion
  • Creating new experiences
  • Common Vision
  • Common Vision
  • Emotional and physical intimacy
  • Healthy boundaries and expectations

"WE Feel aligned,

stronger and more connected than ever!

Finally Found our peace"

The Weekend Intensive is designed for you to re-connect, learn but most importantly have FUN!


If a person is unaware of what he or she is feeling, it is impossible to communicate with a partner.


The proverbial argument of ”putting the cap on the toothpaste”, or “leaving your clothes all over the place” is never the true issue at hand. Once a person can understand the emotion behind those actions, one can then use that emotional bridge to see what really is the deeper issue.


This Weekend Intensive is more than just a weekend getaway with your partner. It is a chance to learn the communication tools necessary to truly share with your partner at a level you have never reached before.


Self-understanding, mutual understanding, compassion and empathy are all skills necessary to connect with a committed and loving partner. This weekend teaches all that and more.


"Ray and Jean are our Angels!

They helped us get out of our box,

and finally tap into our highest potential!"

Not only do we uncover the deep rooted emotional patterns that may be holding you both back, but we have lots of fun! We have helped thousands of couples, “create the relationship they’ve always dreamed of with the partner they fell in love with", and we are very proud of who we help!

It's not all work, we have lots of fun too!

Weekend registration includes:


  • Accommodation


  • Meals except for Friday evening dinner


  • Complementary bottle of wine from local vineyard


  • Couples Synergy wine glasses


  • Wine tasting tickets


  • Formal Dinner/Dance with live music


  • Programming




Upgrades include (limited quantity):


  • Room upgrade


  • Photoshoot with Maira Ochoa
Who are we? 

On September 9th just 7 month later, Dr Ray and Jean got engaged and were married on Valentine’s Day, February 14th 1998. After obtaining their Masters degrees they both became certified in hypnosis and began work with clients to help them grow personally and spiritually, which is their professional foundation to this day. Dr Ray went on to get his doctorate in Clinical Psychology.


Both Jean and Dr Ray work with men and women focusing on personal empowerment with consideration and compassion for their partner. Dr Ray and Jean founded and have been running a successful counseling practice in the Chicagoland area called The Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center since 2002 which focuses on working with couples and families.


Whether you are dating, engaged, in your first year of marriage or your 50th year, and want to feel the excitement, passion and love you once felt, this Weekend Intensive is for both of you. Reenergize your relationship in this Fun, Inspirational, Impactful, Empowering, and Intensive weekend, designed to teach you how to create the relationship you have always dreamed of with the partner you fell in love with.

Who are we? 


Dr Ray and Jean got engaged and were married on Valentine’s Day, February 14th 1998. After obtaining their Masters degrees in Clinical Psychology and began work with clients to help them grow personally and spiritually, which is their professional foundation to this day. Dr Ray went on to get his doctorate in Clinical Psychology.


Both Jean and Dr Ray work with men and women focusing on personal empowerment with consideration and compassion for their partner. Dr Ray and Jean founded and have been running a successful counseling practice in the Chicagoland area called The Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center since 2002 which focuses on working with couples and families. They created their own coaching model called Couples Synergy, designed to help couples transform their relationship into what they truly desire.


Whether you are dating, engaged, in your first year of marriage or your 50th year, and want to feel the excitement, passion and love you once felt, this Weekend Intensive is for both of you. Reenergize your relationship in this Fun, Inspirational, Impactful, Empowering, and Intensive weekend, designed to teach you how to create the relationship you have always dreamed of with the partner you fell in love with.

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