The Relationship You 

Have Always Dreamed of…

With the Partner You Fell in Love with

When two people meet, fall in love, and create a relationship, magic takes place. This magic, love and abundance is only the beginning. Only in fairy tales does it end here with..."and they lived happily ever after". It is only when the right tools are presented to us, that we are able to learn, grow and heal together to reach these new levels of connection and freedom that comes from living a life of synergy! That is the real Magic! Click the link below to learn how you two can bring synergy into your relationship.

The Relationship You Have Always Dreamed of…With the Partner You Fell in Love with

When two people meet, fall in love, and create a relationship, magic takes place. This magic, love and abundance is only the beginning. Only in fairy tales does it end here with..."and they lived happily ever after". It is only when the right tools are presented to us, that we are able to learn, grow and heal together to reach these new levels of connection and freedom that comes from living a life of synergy! That is the real Magic! Click the link below to learn how you two can bring synergy into your relationship.

“Their wealth of knowledge and experience in helping thousands of couples not only makes them relationship experts, but a power couple as well”

“Their wealth of knowledge and experience in helping thousands of couples not only makes them relationship experts, but a power couple as well”

Gain Hope and Grow Through Your Challenges Together

Now more than ever, we see how powerful relationships can be if couples know how to use their challenges to strengthen their bond and grow to the next level. Just like a plant needs sunlight, water and care, without proper attention, your relationship will wither. Relationships require conscious attention in order to thrive.


Everyone says you should work on a relationship, but no one teaches us how. If things have become difficult, this is the perfect time to lean into your relationship, push through the mud and embrace positive change! With the right tools, you can learn how to grow through the most challenging situations together. With proper care and feeding, your relationship will not only grow, but also flourish.

Get Clear on your path

To Synergy

Have you ever felt that no matter how hard you try and how many different ways you say something, you feel your partner just doesn't hear you? Communication is the number one issue plaguing couples today. Navigating complicated thoughts and feelings within yourself is difficult let alone trying to share them with your partner.


Communication breakdown leaves couples feeling disconnected, unfulfilled and lonely, and you don't even know how you got so far away from the deep love you once shared in the beginning. It is really difficult to navigate through the twists and turns that inevitably happen in a long term relationship. It's important to recognize the shift and to learn how to course correct to align you back to what you both long for in your relationship.


All too often we hear how hard couples are working to change their relationship habits, only to find themselves back where they started with lots of motion but no movement. When navigating this unique path together, it is important to get the right tools and guidance. There really are specific techniques and skills that can build a relationship bringing about a happiness that you never knew existed.

Transform Your Connection

Relationships become stale and lack passion when they go un-nurtured or are taken for granted. In the beginning, it was fun and effortless to give attention to the relationship, but over time when other things such as children, careers and responsibilities, compete for that attention, the relationship becomes neglected. This leads to erosion and potential loss of the connection you once had, leaving the relationship vulnerable to self destructive behaviors such as, affairs, addiction and other distractions.


The result of the neglect increases arguing, decreases affection and intimacy, and creates distance. The secret is that the most successful relationships are typically the ones who have seen dark days, rough nights and powerful waves of discomfort, but were able to heed the warning signs, and learn the skills necessary to find their way back together.


All people long for this connection, but many give up believing that this is possible, and resign to the thoughts that a deep connection will never happen for them. We have helped thousands of couples who believed just that, create the relationship they've always dreamed of with the partner they fell in love with. Let us help you.

Gain Hope and Live through your Strengths, together.

Now more than ever, we see how powerful relationships can be if couples know how to use their challenges to strengthen their bond and grow to the next level. Just like a plant needs sunlight, water and care, without proper attention, your relationship will wither. Relationships require conscious attention in order to thrive.


Everyone says you should work on a relationship, but no one teaches us how. If things have become difficult, this is the perfect time to lean into your relationship, push through the mud and embrace positive change! With the right tools, you can learn how to grow through the most challenging situations together. With proper care and feeding, your relationship will not only grow, but also flourish.

Get Clear on your path towards fulfillment.

Have you ever felt that no matter how hard you try and how many different ways you say something, you feel your partner just doesn't hear you? Communication is the number one issue plaguing couples today. Navigating complicated thoughts and feelings within yourself is difficult let alone trying to share them with your partner.


Communication breakdown leaves couples feeling disconnected, unfulfilled and lonely, and you don't even know how you got so far away from the deep love you once shared in the beginning. It is really difficult to navigate through the twists and turns that inevitably happen in a long term relationship. It's important to recognize the shift and to learn how to course correct to align you back to what you both long for in your relationship.


All too often we hear how hard couples are working to change their relationship habits, only to find themselves back where they started with lots of motion but no movement. When navigating this unique path together, it is important to get the right tools and guidance. There really are specific techniques and skills that can build a relationship bringing about a happiness that you never knew existed.

Transform Your Connection

Relationships become stale and lack passion when they go unnurtured or are taken for granted. In the beginning, it was fun and effortless to give attention to the relationship, but over time when other things such as children, careers and responsibilities, compete for that attention, the relationship becomes neglected. This leads to erosion and potential loss of the connection you once had, leaving the relationship vulnerable to self destructive behaviors such as, affairs, addiction and other distractions.


The result of the neglect increases arguing, decreases affection and intimacy, and creates distance. The secret is that the most successful relationships are typically the ones who have seen dark days, rough nights and powerful waves of discomfort, but were able to heed the warning signs, and learn the skills necessary to find their way back together.


All people long for this connection, but many give up believing that this is possible, and resign to the thoughts that a deep connection will never happen for them. We have helped thousands of couples who believed just that, create the relationship they've always dreamed of with the partner they fell in love with. Let us help you.

Meet

Dr. Ray & Jean

Dr. Ray & Jean have been married since Valentine's Day in 1998, and in 2002, they CoFounded the Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center, a counseling center in the Chicagoland area. After working with thousands of couples, they created and perfected a unique approach to coach couples to have amazing relationships, called Couples Synergy. Dr. Ray & Jean both have Master's degrees in Clinical Psychology, and Dr. Ray has an additional doctorate in Clinical Psychology. They have two grown sons and a daughter-in-law, and are avid hikers and enjoy traveling the world and experiencing life together.


When it comes to relationships, they believe that they cannot teach it unless they live it. They are a real couple who have worked hard to create an amazing relationship through the difficult challenges life brings us all. Their knowledge and experience, not only comes from the couples they have helped, but from their own personal relationship, which they are very proud of.


In extension of their love for one another, Dr. Ray & Jean, bring their unique method called Couples Synergy to relationships all over the world. Couples Synergy teaches the critical self-awareness skills and effective conflict-resolution tools to create a strong and lasting foundation that is necessary to have a happy, successful and empowered relationship.


Learning the techniques taught in Couples Synergy will not only help you create an amazing relationship with your partner, but it will allow you to give your children a powerful role model that will influence generations to come. There is a reason why relationships are so complex since they involve all aspects of our being, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.


We are excited to get to know you better and to share with you the secrets to creating a synergized relationship filled with abundance and love.

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Meet

Dr.Ray and Jean ! 

Dr. Ray & Jean have been married since Valentine's Day in 1998, and in 2002, they CoFounded the Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center, a counseling center in the Chicagoland area. After working with thousands of couples, they created and perfected a unique approach to coach couples to have amazing relationships, called Couples Synergy. Dr. Ray & Jean both have Master's degrees in Clinical Psychology, and Dr. Ray has an additional doctorate in Clinical Psychology. They have two grown sons and a daughter-in-law, and are avid hikers and enjoy traveling the world and experiencing life together.


When it comes to relationships, they believe that they cannot teach it unless they live it. They are a real couple who have worked hard to create an amazing relationship through the difficult challenges life brings us all. Their knowledge and experience, not only comes from the couples they have helped, but from their own personal relationship, which they are very proud of.


In extension of their love for one another, Dr. Ray & Jean, bring their unique method called Couples Synergy to relationships all over the world. Couples Synergy teaches the critical self-awareness skills and effective conflict-resolution tools to create a strong and lasting foundation that is necessary to have a happy, successful and empowered relationship.


Learning the techniques taught in Couples Synergy will not only help you create an amazing relationship with your partner, but it will allow you to give your children a powerful role model that will influence generations to come. There is a reason why relationships are so complex since they involve all aspects of our being, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.


We are excited to get to know you better and to share with you the secrets to creating a synergized relationship filled with abundance and love.